'A woman called me vain for taking progress pictures in a West Midlands gym - but I was banned for sticking up for myself'

A Birmingham-based plus size content creator claims she was left stunned after being banned from her local gym after 'defending herself' when another member made comments about her.

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Janay Dawes, who is known to her 232,000 Instagram followers as 'curvyblackwitch', claims she was banned from The Gym - Hagley Road following a confrontation with another member last week. 

The mother-of-one, from Birmingham, who also goes by the surname Owen, had been a member of the gym on and off since 2017 but started taking her health journey more seriously and became a regular attendee for the last two years. 

However, on Monday (February 16), she recieved an email from the groups stating that her membership had been terminated due to 'bullying and harassment', following an incident last week, of which Janay claims she was the real victim and had just reacted to another member's comments. 

Janay Dawes was banned from The Gym - Hagley Road after a confrontation with another member
Janay Dawes was banned from The Gym - Hagley Road after a confrontation with another member

Speaking to the Express & Star, the 36-year-old influencer said: "I was at the gym, with my headphones on, taking progress pictures when I heard the door bang really loud. I turned round to see who it was and this woman barged past me and started calling me vain and telling me I don't look good. 

"I was just minding my business, taking progress pictures for my personal trainer like I do every session. 

"So, naturally, I defended myself because I know she better not be talking to me. I'm not the one. I called her out in the fitting rooms and she walked away laughing and smirking."

Janay Dawes claims the incident occurred when she was taking her usual progress pics for her personal trainer
Janay Dawes claims the incident occurred when she was taking her usual progress pics for her personal trainer

Following the confrontation, Janay said that she got ready to leave and spotted the woman crying to staff in the office - which Janay says felt like 'weaponised' tears and said she told a member of staff her side of the story. 

Janay admitted to sticking her finger up at the woman on the way out after her personal trainer suggested going for a coffee to calm down.

"The staff member said there were 'two conflicting stories' and that I would get a phone call to investigate it but I never recieved one," she added. 

Janay, 36, from Birmingham
Janay, 36, from Birmingham

"I usually go to the gym on Mondays but this week I was a bit ill so I decided I'd go on Tuesday instead. But when I checked my emails, I had been notified that my membership was terminated without a proper investigation. It's discrimination against the real victim. I was just defending myself.

"I don't even want my membership back if this is how they're going to treat me. They can keep it. I can go to another one a bit further away. It's just the principal of it."

Janay took to Instagram with a full statement about the situation, which has since garnered more than 900 likes and comments from people showing her support. 

The Gym - Hagley Road
The Gym - Hagley Road

One user said: "So sorry you’ve had to deal with this, but speaking out also takes a lot of strength and courage, hopefully others who have had similar experiences will be able to see they’re not alone."

Another wrote: "I never realised you were local. Hope you get a positive response from the gym," while a third commented: "Sorry that this happened to you. Stand tall with your head held high Queen." 

A spokesperson for The Gym Group: “We are committed to providing welcoming and inclusive gym spaces for all. Our Dignity at The Gym Group policy and member rules help us to create that environment, including that we do not allow any abusive, threatening or intimidating behaviour."