'My life in the West Midlands with Endometriosis - a life-changing severe and debilitating disease that I want to raise awareness about'

My name is Eden West-O'Donnell. Please listen to my story. I will forever scream and shout from the rooftops about Endometriosis.

By contributor Eden West O'Donnell
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I'm, 26 from Birmingham in the West Midlands.  I will never become tired of raising awareness about Endometriosis - it is such a life-changing, whole body, severe and debilitating disease. It took roughly 13 years for a diagnosis! Yes, that's right. My symptoms came along pretty much just after I started my first period when I was 10 years old. Flashforward to now and Endometriosis has changed my life! I've had 2 surgeries in the space of one year and am currently awaiting my third surgery. I have been diagnosed with Severe Stage 4 diffuse Endometriosis, almost everywhere - along with Adenomyosis.

Permanent scarring from overusing heat constantly to ease the pain.
Permanent scarring from overusing heat constantly to ease the pain.
Scars and bruises from each surgery.
Scars and bruises from each surgery.
Me
Me
Extreme bloating.
Extreme bloating.

I experience debilitating pain daily, as many of us do. 1 in 7 now would you believe?! I have a trolley of essentials next to my bed as well as pharmacy bag that I carry with me on the days I do manage to go out. I have a walking stick for the severe days and depend on morphine and nappies, whilst having my sick bowl attached to my mouth. I have 1 "okay" week every month and that is all. Endometriosis is not just a bad period. I have had to give up employment for now, have insomnia and crippling anxiety due to my diagnosis and the agonising pain. Some days I look 6+ months pregnant due to extreme Endo Belly. The cruel twisted joke that makes me look pregnant but when in actual fact, it's going to be hard for me to conceive!) I was told I had IBS for over 11 years! I suffer with Toasted Tummy Syndrome from using heat to mask the pain. My stomach is scarred and blistered but I need the ease.

My life has changed completely since being diagnosed with Endometriosis. As there is no cure, all we can do is learn to live with it - and why not do that whilst spreading awareness?