'Embrace the unknown and find friends like you' - say local community group
Local friendly society, Mid Staffs Oddfellows says when it comes to meeting new people it’s important to embrace the unknown. To inspire others to give a new community group a go, its members have stepped forward to share that, while it’s normal to feel anxious at first, pushing past any nerves increases the chance of finding a place where you can relax and be yourself.
Jean Gauci, from Stone is a member of the Oddfellows’ Mid Staffs Branch and has experienced this firsthand. For over three years, Jean has been part of the local group that meets regularly to socialise, try new activities, and build supportive friendships.
“Trying a new club or group for the first time is nerve-wracking, no question about it,” said Jean. “But that’s because it’s a new experience, not because you can’t do it. The thing is, sometimes you need to step outside your comfort zone to find places and people where you can feel totally at ease. It’s about finding a community where you can relax, laugh, and really feel comfortable.”
“But it’s the first step that can be the hardest. Once you make that leap and see the kind of people you’re surrounded by, it doesn’t feel so scary anymore,” she added.
Jean’s experience isn’t unique, says Mid Staffs Oddfellows, and adds that most newcomers feel this way. With a focus on connection, the group says supportive environments are key to helping people try new things without feeling out of their depth.
The local not-for-profit organises and hosts around four events a month, including regular meetups in Stafford & Stoke including coffee mornings, lunch clubs, and games afternoons. The Branch also organises day trips, offering a mix of light-hearted social events and enriching experiences.
Tina Bayley who co-ordinates events for Mid Staffs Oddfellows and a member herself explains that every gathering is designed with four things in mind.
“Our events offer four things: regularity – so you’ve always got something to look forward to; variety – so you can try new things; reassurance – a friendly, welcoming environment; and affordability – so no one misses out on good company because of cost,” she said.
Newcomers are invited to get in touch and try an event. These include a Beetle Drive starting at 1.30pm on Tuesday, November 25, at The Oddfellows Hall, Greengate Street, Stafford. There is also Cuppa & Chat starting at 10.30am on Thursday, December 11 (Christmas Jumper Day) again at The Oddfellows Hall in Stafford.
Tina added: “Whether you're new to the area, looking to meet people, or simply seeking a change in routine, we’ve something for everyone. Our wide range of activities makes it an easy place for people to dip their toes into the world of socialising without feeling overwhelmed.”
The Oddfellows’ Mid Staffs Branch is one of 96 across the country which aims to connect local people and foster a sense of belonging within communities by making sure everyone is made welcome.
To find out more about the upcoming activities of Mid Staffs Oddfellows, or to request a free information pack, including a diary of local events, call 01785 258269 email midstaffs@oddfellows.co.uk, or visit oddfellows.co.uk/activities
