Say ‘yes’ to new friendships at special taster events
Friendly society, Mid Staffs Oddfellows is inviting Stafford residents to a series of special taster events as part of its annual Friendship Month celebrations this September. The local not-for-profit group, made up of around 420 members, mostly older adults, is appealing for people to push past any uncertainty or self-doubt, and to say ‘yes’ to giving their friendly group a try. They are kicking off their festivities with a “Fancy a brew? Come and see us too!” coffee morning.
Promising a warm welcome to any newcomers, District Secretary for Mid Staffs Oddfellows, Tina Bayley said: “Trying new activities inevitably puts us in situations where we might feel uncomfortable or a little out of place – but that’s all part of the experience. People who try us always leave saying they wish they hadn’t worried so much and they were pleased they came along.
“It’s easy to say ‘no’ to anything that challenges our regular habits. But these tasters have been specifically designed to put you at ease.
“Saying ‘yes’ to giving something new a try, especially a shared experience, has so many rewards, especially for wellbeing.
“Good company boosts your mood, builds your social confidence, and keeps your brain and body active. Plus, what often gets overlooked is that when you create a new circle of friends, you’re also creating a supportive network for when you might need a helping hand.”
Mid Staffs Oddfellows has been celebrating Friendship Month since 2010, aiming to bring local people together through special taster events and to encourage the formation of new, supportive friendships.
On Thursday’s throughout September at 10am, the group is inviting local residents to try its ‘Fancy a brew? Come and see us too!’ at the Oddfellows Hall, Greengate Street, Stafford. Further events include Cuppa & Chat on Tuesday 2nd September, 10.30am at the Six Arches restaurant in Trentham Garden Centre and a Buffet & Bingo session 12.30pm at the Cotton Mill, Liverpool Road, Newcastle, Staffs ST5 2AF.
The Oddfellows also runs around 60 online social events through Zoom each month which are free and open to the general public.
Ron Horton from Stafford has been a member of Mid Staffs Oddfellows for a year now.
He said: “You have your routine, and that’s fine, but it’s important to break out of it from time to time – to try a new cafe, walk or to have a lovely conversation with someone outside of your family or regular friendships.
“You find out so many interesting things, and have stories to share afterwards. It lifts your spirits. You should never stop learning, or challenging yourself.
“If you’re nervous, don’t be. We’ve all been there and understand how nerve-wracking it can feel. Give Tina or Christine a call beforehand and then that’s one new friend you’ve made already!”
Mid Staffs Oddfellows is one of 96 branches of the Oddfellows, which is one of the oldest and largest friendly societies in the UK.
The Society aims to improve its members’ lives through friendship and support. As well as its events, members can access a variety of benefits including care and welfare support and a travel club. There are also opportunities to take part in fundraising and volunteering initiatives.
To register an interest in attending one of Mid Staffs Oddfellows’ Friendship Month taster events, or to find out more about the group and its activities, email midstaffs@oddfellows.co.uk, call Tina or Christine on 01785 258269 or request a local info pack at friendshipmonth.com.
