Rivals stars among guests at memorial service celebrating Jilly Cooper’s life

The author was known for her steamy novels which focused on scandal and adultery in upper class society.

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Rivals star Alex Hassell and his wife Emma King arrive for a service of thanksgiving for Dame Jilly Cooper (Ian West/PA)

Friends of Dame Jilly Cooper are arriving at a memorial service to celebrate her life in central London.

Dame Jilly died unexpectedly in October, aged 88, after sustaining injuries from a fall.

A service will take place on Friday morning at Southwark Cathedral in her honour.

Among those arriving before the service were Rivals stars David Tennant, Victoria Smurfit, Alex Hassell, Aidan Turner, Danny Dyer and Katherine Parkinson.

Lisa Maxwell arriving for a service of thanksgiving for Dame Jilly Cooper
Lisa Maxwell was among the attendees (PA)

Dame Jilly’s literary agent Felicity Blunt arrived alongside her husband, actor Stanley Tucci.

He paid tribute to the late author and told media: “She lived an incredible life.

“She also changed the lives of so many people for the better with her books, my wife being one of them.

“She was an extraordinary person, a brilliant writer, nice person and naughty.”

Dame Jilly Cooper service of thanksgiving
Danny Dyer (Ian West/PA)

Blunt wore a tote bag that said “I love Jilly Cooper” on it.

Arriving for the service, Alan Titchmarsh said he was friends with Dame Jilly for 40 years and described her as “hugely genuine”.

He joked: “Her only failing was her appalling hand drawing.”

Asked what it meant to be there at the service, Titchmarsh said: “It’s a way of saying thank-you really. Such a loss of a great friend.”

Broadcaster Gyles Brandreth paid tribute to the “fabulous” and “amazing” Dame Jilly.

He said: “Whenever I think of Jilly Cooper, I think of one word, a three-letter word: fun, fun, fun, fun.

“That sums her up.

Dame Jilly Cooper service of thanksgiving
Aidan Turner (left) and Caitlin FitzGerald (Ian West/PA)

“This is, of course, terribly sad, but also it’s a celebration of an amazing life, an amazing writer, an amazing human being.

“Champagne is being popped in heaven today and I’m honoured and delighted to be here amongst so many celebrating an amazing writer.”

He continued: “I first met her nearly 60 years ago. We were both young authors. We sat at the back of a bus. I held her hand, and she decided to talk to me about sex.

“I saw her a few weeks before she died. We sat in the back of the bus, we held hands, we talked about sex. She was fabulous.”

Other guests included Dame Joanna Lumley, actor Rupert Everett, former football player Tony Adams, actress Lisa Maxwell and comedian Helen Lederer.

Helen Lederer arriving for a service of thanksgiving for Dame Jilly Cooper at Southwark Cathedral
Helen Lederer arriving for the service at Southwark Cathedral (Ian West/PA)

The author was known for her steamy fiction novels which focused on scandal and adultery in upper class society, with titles including Riders, Rivals and Polo, part of The Rutshire Chronicles.

Rivals, set in the 1980s against the backdrop of the Cotswolds countryside, was recently adapted into the award-winning eponymous Disney+ TV series starring David Tennant, Alex Hassell, Emily Atack and Danny Dyer.

Dame Jilly’s fictional seducer and showjumper Rupert Campbell-Black, who appears in The Rutshire Chronicles, is said to be partly based on the Queen’s ex-husband Andrew Parker Bowles.

Camilla previously described the author as a “wonderfully witty and compassionate friend” and a writing “legend”.

A number of Dame Jilly’s novels were adapted for TV, including an ITV series of The Man Who Made Husbands Jealous with Coronation Street star Stephen Billington and Downton Abbey actor Hugh Bonneville, and a Riders series starring Marcus Gilbert during the 1990s.

Stanley Tucci (front) and Felicity Blunt arrive for a service of thanksgiving for Dame Jilly Cooper at Southwark Cathedral
Stanley Tucci was among the mourners paying their respects at the service (Ian West/PA)

She was also behind the 1970s sitcom It’s Awfully Bad For Your Eyes, which starred Dame Joanna Lumley.

Dame Jilly wrote the hit novel Mount! and published her most recent work Tackle! in 2023, which she wrote on her trusty manual typewriter named Monica.

The author was made a CBE for services to literature and charity during the 2018 New Year Honours, and in 2024 was made a dame, later describing receiving the honour from the King as “orgasmic”.

She is survived by her two children, Felix and Emily.